My husband of 28 years confessed he was in online relationships for 3 years that ended up having real sex. his "new love" left her husband to be with mine but mine chickened out and she returned back to her husband. He told me about the whole thing. I was very hurt, moved out. now he begs for forgiveness and asking me back. what to do? the kids are grown up not living with us.
It's been already 3 months since I learned about it. I am over the pain but my gut feeling is quiet. I feel under pressure to make the decision and afraid to make a wrong one. How long it may take until I know the answer? The logic tells me he will do it again, he promises "never again". He was in love with the same woman 20 years ago. This time it got far to a "marriage" discussion that scared him. I want to trust but if he does it again in 10 years, I may not be able to recover.