My Mother has always been like this , but no one outside the home knew what she was doing only us. She really just want to scare us to do things her way being loud, cursing, belittling us as kids, pending us until this day against each other. She know if she calls the police she will have the upper hand we love her but she is running us away from her. Everyone that lives their always trying to help her in anyway possible, but I really feel bad for my siblings that cries and be upset with the on going put downs. What can we do to bring this family back together and to let her know that we love her?
No that is just for control no one is being harmed. I am positive about that....we love her and she has a host of grandkids (approx. 30 total) and they love her too. When a person get older do they become meaner or hurtful or want the ones that love her the most to see her in that way to push them away. At this age of her life love is important.