Yes to both fronts on my physical condition. I work out twice daily (cardio and weights) and I just had my yearly and everything was good. I've tried fantasizing, however, it feels forced at times.
Would outside factors such as my job and the fact that I don't speak to my family anymore effect this?
Also, what are some better ways that I could fantasize? Would it be best to do this right before sex or progressively during the day?
I've also talked to her on the lack of foreplay for me, how can I better broach this subject because I'm afraid to ask.