I did state what I wanted. His response was I better do it so you don't get pissed. Very disheartening. I don't feel very cared about. I feel that as long as I cook his meals, do his laundry, clean, and be ready for sex whenever he wants it,then everything is just fine. When if ever does what I would like enter in?
We are older so kids are not gonna happen we both have grown children of our own. This is my second marriage and for him it's his third. He fixes things that break, and does some yard work. He is pretty handy. In our 4 years together he has done dishes once, and laundry twice. The only reason he did the dishes was because he lost a bet, so it was kind of fun joke. I work too in fact I have my own business, with 14 employees. I am very busy too. I still make sure dinner happens every day, except very rarely, that the house is clean, laundry is done etc. I never refuse sex, no matter how sick or tired I am. I don't want that to be a source of problems. I just don't feel he is putting the same effort into the relationship.
ok I will try that. Thanks.