Hello- Thank you for asking the question. I have over 30 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families & am happy to reply.
I am sorry to hear about this.
I see that you have tried Viagra and Cialis.
Have you spoken to a Urologist or Endocrinologist about this.
Typically, if no other medical complications, this is an issue of low testosterone.
Detailed information on low libido and sex drive can be found here:
My suggestion is that you review this information and discuss the issues with your Doctor.
Evaluation for your suitability for testosterone therapy is indicated.