Hi. I am here. I will be leaving my office for the afternoon in 10 minutes but will be back at 7pm. thank you for the positive rating.
WHAT SHOULD I DO
more time. I know that is hard. But you have no other choice. you dont want to leave. give her some time to see your therapist.
you love her and want to be with her so honor what she needs now and hope that she will come around and desire what you do.
its so hard
i know she need time
but i feel useless
I know it is. You are doing all you can right now
talking helps, i wish i could talk to someone everyday, to help me be patient, do you recommend medication for me
I am so sorry but I need to run to pick up my kids from school. Click save and exit and come back to it tonight after 7pm so I can support you.
I would speak with your therapist about meds
and you can come to me as often as you need to.
I want to listen and keep you grounded.
Well last night she went to see my therapist, and it did not turn out the way i expected. He told her that we needed to separate for 6 months to a year because both of us are in a crisis. I do not agree with this, but she does. He also told her that she needed to see psychoatris instead of a therapist becasue she really has some deep issuse going way back in her life..
I am not as sure as you are that this will work out in the long run, i believe that once i leave the house it will all be over, because i dont reallt think she ever loved me at all. because how do you just fall out of love? she loves me as her childrens father still, she is so cold, but you know last night after we talked, she let me make love to her, what the hell that? i asked for it and she said ok..
I guess i knew deep down inside that i was going to have to leave and give her the time she needs to clear her head. i am so sad, i have no one else to turn too, its going to be so hard just going to work and coming home and not seeing my wife and kids, and sleeping alone, being alone, i have no one. I mean i helped my kids with their homework, cleaning cooking, bathing, dressing brushing teeth, walking the dog, man what am i going to do now?
Its going to be very hard for me to be around the kids while she is there, its going to be very hard for me not to call her, its going to be very hard not to text and e-mail her. So i thought about diappearing for a month or two while i get my head together. I just cant see her after i leave, i love her too muchto pretent every thing is going to be ok... i hope she get the help she needs...right now i cant funstion at work, its a shame these things happen