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so fill me in
and what part werent you honest about?
well she is telling you she is leaving town and it is too soon so it feels safe for her to text and see you
but if you are still tied to her emotionally then it will keep you confused and wanting her to be with you
but if she is leaving then I dont see how that can happen. I would protect my heart here.
she seems confused about most things
yes and as you know she needs to be the one to figure it all out
if it doesnt come from her then she can end up resenting you for making it for her
I know you do. I would be open with how you feel about wanting to be with her and you will be there for her for what she needs and support her in whatever decision she makes.
but she is sending confusing messages....its too soon yet she wants to see you and is texting.
no other way to go as she is unsure and confused by a lot of things.
yes and be cautious. I know you want her back and things feel good and I want that for you, but keep in mind that she is giving a few mixed signals.
so let her keep coming to you as she has been and be open with your desires and see if things can fall into place.
It might be where she needs to feel in control here. I worry that if you come on strong she will back away quickly.
that is what seems to be working now
so keep me posted on how things are going and we will take it as it comes.
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I am suggesting you let her know how you feel but not push her...let her come to you because she wants to and not run away because she feels pushed. Does that make sense?