my children who are adults have all tried to talk to him. He definetly won't let me talk to his doctor.
I suppose you are right if he has to go he has to its just really bringing me down and financially I will not be able to cope. I am also frightened that he may never return. The again I can't go on like this he is bringing me down as well.
Thank you I have read a lot of articles and they all say it is not him talking but his depression I suppose I just have to keep telling myself that but its hard to accpet. Thanks for your advice I have no-one else. I have a doctor who is not very supportive and I am the type who doesn't burden people with my problems. I am in Melbourne Australia and I have found it very hard to find support