yes his thinking has changed, he does not see any postive in anything anymore, the classic is WHAT IS THE POINT IN THIS, I WOULD BE BETTER OUT OF THIS WORLD, ETC. he get bored easily, he lot more tired, he has had road rage, he also sometimes have a vacant look about him. he have suffered from very bad headaches, for years, but they have died down quite a bit. I think his mother has suffered from depression. his father developed altzheimers in his fifties.
I started to notice around november time last year, as he was pushing me away, and i knew something was not right. he does has a temper,
which his mother and sister told me about, and i have learnt just to walk away, when this happens. but his mood swings have been terrible and frightening. he is blaming me in someway for the affair, as he said it is do to sex! i am so upset about the lies, as they are like stories, and i cant comprehend how anyone could lie like that. he starting to play really loud music in the car, and i ask why and he says because i feel like it. as said before his whole personality has changed, he came home the other night with bruisers on inside of his wrist and forarm, and he say he cant remember how he got them