Ok, thank you. I am a male who was friends with another male. We worked at the same company. From when I can understand now, He did some kind of role playing game that went on for ten years. And during the years, people are to change their beliefs on life by experencing diffrent things. This so-called game is found in a book called games people play (Eric Bern) Over the ten years. I became very close with him and his family. We did everything together. He did con me into doing things about himself, which I did not realize. While he changed beliefs for himself.
I could go into great detail but that would take sometime. So let me say at the end of the ten years, I was forced out of the company, and left with out any possible employment. I did see what was happing at the end. I left the State and have no-contact with him. I have been unemployed for three years and I don't see this changing.( that was the way the co-called game was set up) I saw him as a great friend and the actions that he did is just unbelieveable.
I really believe he is a Sociopath and a Narcissist. I tryed to keep it short. The whole thing is on my mind every day. I get very depressed alot. I worry about the rest of my life and how I will end up.
Thank you for the update! It's good that you are thinking about talking to a therapist. Therapy can help you work through the pain you feel as a result of what your friend did to you. And I would be happy to help you again if you have any more questions.