I'm looking for someone to put something in better perspective/advice.
My boyfriend (or whatever he is to me now), is a heroin addict. I didn't know he was an addict when I met him. He never told me. I didn't find out until he relapsed.
I went through the whole terrible, awful things you go through with in addict: the lies, sneaking around, him stealing, etc. I made the decision to stay because not only did
I love him, I wanted to help and believed he could recover because he has in the past.
After several attempts, he finally went to detox then rehab (mainly to avoid jail, but nonetheless, he went). Unfortunately, he ended being taken out of rehab and put in jail for 5 months (3 different jails: third degree theft, violating probation, and drug possession).
I still stuck it out with him and visited him in Jail. I tried to be as supportive as I could (I also attended Nar-a-non meeting and ran a few meetings, too).
Now he is out of jail, and with his parents 13 hours away, and slowly, the communication has dwindled, and I don't know why. I doesn't answer the phone, doesn't call back, answer texts (I'll get a random text here and there, but that's it). I'm really getting angry, and at the same time I'm sad
(he also informed me that he used my address for his unemployment and social security card without my consent I might add
, which made me mad). I told him he needed to change it, which he never did (little does he know, I sent the unemployment pay stubs back to the post office).
I'm just trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong here...I'm so confused...thanks for reading...