She could be stalking him. He could be telling the truth. He can open an account in any other bank where he's residing now. If he does not put any more money in the account in Chicago, that account would just sit open in the negative or with whatever $ is in it now.
How are things going on w/ you otherwise? Did you ever find that title?
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No, we brought more paper work to go through today. I just had the car worked on but will tell him I can't drive it without the registration which i can get once i get the title. I will leave it at my son's house with his dad. Wouldn't you think the bank he owes money too would take it out of his acct if money was in the acct. to cover his debt, if so how could he write a check to someone let alone transfer money to her acct. On his checks is only his name.
He is waiting on a patent and it could be very rewarding. We have gotten very close and he knows my past is making me insecure but I told him he is the master and he will handle this with his ex. he wants to go to Tenn, if this patent goes through and take me with him.
I pretty much live with him but still have my apartment.
Yes, you'd think the bank can resolve this one way or another. You could ask to see a statement from his bank.
It sounds like things are moving along the lines of how a relationship ought to be. He is not in Chicago anymore even if that woman is stalking him. He has to deal w/ her.
You can still be cautious if certain things don't sound or seem right as long as you know you're not displacing something from the past relationship onto him. And you've been mindful as he knows about how that relationship had hurt you.
It is important to keep your communication open. Even if there are difficulties, as long as both of you are open w/ one another, these can be overcome. Even problems are temporary.
It could be the stress affecting him in what he said to you. It is doubtful that they're together if things were unhealthy and he moved his belongings and relocated. You have to go by tangible things- what he says, does and how he is towards you.
It is up to him in regard to how he copes and what he does hence forth. Hopefully he's occupied w/ his patent and other endeavors and you get enough and healthy attention from him.