Hello -- What did he mean when he said he had a limited personal disorder? I have never heard of such diagnosis.
Did he describe what type of anxiety disorder he has? There are many in the diagnostic and statistical manual (what is used to diagnose).
He told me also that he had a Bipolar dissorder...
Okay, did he say what type of bipolar disordeR?
He can travel by bus and work but he doesn't talk with people
he only said he was not psycotic...sorry but English is not my normal language..I make faults
He can't express himself with the right words
he feels empty inside ...no feelings
Okay so my guess with not having met him is that he has an anxiety disorder that includes agoraphobia (the fear of having a panic attack in the presence of others).
he can't stay long in a group of people
he locks himself up in his room
no social life
That's okay about your english, I am understanding what you're saying. The bipolar -- includes a form of mania (feeling as though you're on top of the world) and then depressive symptoms (where you feel like crap and don't want to leave the house).
yes I learned about it on the internet
Ah okay, so what specifically is your question?
He is a bit changed since we met on the internet 2 years ago
he wrote me that I'm the most important person next to his family
Wow. It sounds like he has a severe case of agoraphobia
Well we both are also on Youtube uploading our songs.
That's a good way of communicating with him
And since 2 months I understand that he is communicating by songs
Is that his only way of communicating?
I found it very strange because in writing he is cold and in the choise of his songs he is the opposite
for the moment yes...it was to confused for me to write with him
he likes to stay distant far from real things
It sounds like he is dealing with a lot right now.
when you say real things; do you mean things based in reality?
Do you know how old he is?
it's already 10 years he lives like that
Okay, does he spend a lot of time based in another reality? Or his own world?
work family and his room
music and me
for everybody his songs are great to listen to
Well, the good thing is that he works -- is this out of the home?
It's probably his only area where he feel comfortable expressing himself
yes...he wrote that he did not have a problem by taking the bus and go to work
yes his room is his world
he doesn't want people close by him
Does he have an autism or aspergers diagnosis as well?
I don't know....I heard already about Aspergers but need to look at the symptoms of that
Do you think that my answers trough music help him??
He communicate and that is already something
It is good that he is communicating with people through music; as this sounds like it is his only way of communication.
But I think he also needs to speak with people outside of the internet -- I think that since you're someone he trusts you could help him see that
i have the link thank you
No he doesn't want to do that. I also send him a few letters and he doesn't reply on them.
I hear the song he uploads that he has received the letter and that he is happy with it
While he might not want to do it...it's important for his mental and physical well-being.
That is good.
I know...I know
He has a reason to live
That is good too!
in the beginning he told me that he was tired of his room
now he has a reason to live I think
It's better then nothing
I think that's good; if he ever suggests that he doesn't, I would suggest that you tell him to seek out assistance at his nearest emergency room
I think our communication by music gives him a boost
I would agree.
he still lives at home and he has medication for bipolarity and he takes also a sleeping pill
he wrote that he gets up in the morning at 200 miles an hour
That is good, as it will help him with stabilizing his mood and helping him to sleep.
I think he crawled out of bed before
That would be the mania.
no because he was always very calm while we were chatting
but he's waking at 200 miles an hour?
Before he was down but since 2 months with the music he is no more down
that is good.
it sounds like the music is his outlet
yes I know it sounds manic but it isn't
yes for 1O years
there are a lot of people from the US that are asking for advice about music
So what else can I assist you with?
yes music is a great outlet for those with mental health problems
and others in general
ok that was my question...
it will not cure him but makes his life comfortable
thank you very much
Right; there is no cure for bipolar disorder...just something that will help him is all you can do! The medication will help too.
I wish you a good evening because here it's almost 5 AM
Wow! Have a great day!
You too!!! Goodbye