Coach Jenk, These are all recent texts from my ex gf. It was over a bill that I asked a mutual friend about 2 weeks ago, obviously nothing happened. So I then went ahead and emailed them both. I got a decent response from the ex. But the next day all hell broke loose. So what do you make or think of these texts from her?Dude. I emailed you Yesterday about the bills. And once again you go running to elaine. f**king grow up dude. Are you retarded? This is the last time I will say this. DO NOT CONTACT ELAINE ABOUT ANYTHING THAT Okay. Wtf. This is why, once again. f**k you both. So f**king dramatic. I told you this is what would happen. I f**king told both of you. And now I look like the bitch. Awesome! Per usual. I'm the bad guy. Such bullshit Well you didn't want to f**king listen. And she can't be surprised as to why I havent told her anything bc I know whatever I say will get back to you in some skewed formCoach Jenk what do you make of these texts and why doesn't she just stop?
Hi. i am not in my office and i am writing from my phone so please forgive any typos or if it takes a bit to respond. if you are okay to wait a few hours then how does 8pm est work for you? that would be best on my end.
if you want just want to give me your best answer, go for it. I just undersatnd why she thinks in her business.
I just do not understand why she cares, and why being bothered with this. I am looking for an honest answer. Why does it matter, who I talk to or what I am doing? Why is she being so misunderstanding?
But I will say this, I think she thinks that I am keeping tabs on her...
My best answer is that all contact should end....this dynamic will continue if you both continue to play the game by emailing, texting, etc.
If it were me I would cut all ties and you get to make the decision about whom you are contacting. You are not together so it isnt any of her business.
Clearly she has unresolved issues of anger and jealousy and I have felt that all along.
I understand you needed to contact them regarding the bill but I am hoping you have the restraint not to text back and engage in any of her tirade...that is what it is...a tirade...a tirade that you are over, a tirade that you confide in someone else other than her and a tirade that she cannot control you.
So that is my best answer and if you want to chat further I am here at 8pm est.
yeah. she has a strange way of showing it. I saw on FB, and know have but a post that said "why you just go away, for he love of god"
I just get why she say this to my face
i am online now.
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