It does seem like he really does want to control me. He always says I leave you alone I don’t want to control you. Why are you always trying to control me. Yet he is always asking when he calls at work. What are you doing? Where you going? I notice he tries to ask in subtle way most of time. Is this because he doesn’t want me to realize what he is doing?
Now that I have become more independent he started asking the other day who is texting you? He hasn’t seemed to care before but I notice he all the sudden has interest. He gets text but I never ask or say anything anymore because I really don’t care anymore. I feel why care over someone who will just lie and cheat anyhow. It is a waste of my time.
As far as the other girl goes I think she is boiling in jealousy and to be honest I don’t care. I don’t care what she has to say or think. I am not the one who has done anything wrong and if she believes what he feeds her so be it. She will one day discover the truth or live a life in hell.
I don’t think I have felt this at piece in along time. I notice the more at piece I feel and the more I don’t care that he does things to try and upset me. He picked a huge fight on Friday with me and started saying the meanest most horrible things. Like I don’t love you, I don’t want to be with you, you are crazy, you have mental problems, and on and on. I just listened and went to sleep. Some things he said did
hurt and upset me but not like they use to. He also got in a fight with his aunt Friday night and said mean things to her. He said I am going to teach her a lesson for getting into my business. How do I mentally prepare myself not to let the things he says get to me? Am I on the right path to rebuilding and recovery? Why is he worried about my phone now?
What is your overall thought on everything and what path should I take? Why does he all the sudden not seem interested in other women?