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Yes, I can use the I-ching and Tarot drawing to see what the energies are. I will post the results later in the day to this tread. Remember- these are just energies like the weather forecast.
From the I-ching:
Hexagram 11 in love affairs indicates few difficulties which can be overcome with hope and persistence. As long as he keeps his initial affection/feelings for you, he will be able to overcome the hassles he's facing at the present.
Tarot energy of the day - Seven of Swords: indicates the need for him to be tactful in matters of business/finances and question other's motives in order not to be taken advantage of. Cautions against being deceived or bullied into doing something he's not up to.
These are energies (not something written in stone) the way he thinks and acts (because of free will) would ultimately determine the outcome he is seeking.
He is working on his own issues now. You are being respectful to this and depending on the progress he is able to make during this time, it is possible for him to see through the problems that he believes were in the way in the past. He has to learn from his own experiences in order to grow as an individual in order to be able to be there for another person.
The tarot or I-ching only show what is influencing him and the time would depend on what progress he makes meanwhile. You can still send a letter out after you see him, (if you believe that the two of you may run into one another).
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Yes, I'll use the I-ching and post the info later today under this tread. It is a good sign that he's making sure that you know that he loves you. Try not to stress yourself so much.
Is he at his friend's house? Did he say where is he moving his stuff to?
Hexagram # 33
This addresses his situation - Confirms that he's moving away from his family life due to incompatibility and that this is going to cause financial problems but it's going to be temporary. He will have to cut his losses.
This addresses your relationship inquiry- happiness is possible, development of affairs, possibly getting some kind of help from outside sources (this may relate to his living situation at the moment and/or moving in with you)
Patience on your part is required, remaining strong and confident; the hexagram cautions against acting rash or unreasonable as it can ruin things.
Stay confident. If you worry, that won't change anything except make you anxious and sad. If he senses that you're stressed out, he may feel guilty. He already is dealing with a lot of guilt and stress in his own situation right now.
Giving him the needed time to sort out his life is unselfish and well intended act on your part.