Doctor Rao : The causes can be numerous.
Doctor Rao : However, if w efollowing a step wise process, may be able to look at the possible reasons.
Doctor Rao : We can start looking from common reasons like, he might needed money, not trusting personality. If the money is small amounts and small objects with out significance( no financial benefit), the possibility of Kleptomania might need to be considered. Kleptomania can co occur in Depression,,OCD or other impulse related problems. However, if the money high amounts and objects very valuable and he was stealing with an intention to make money, the it is unlikely the above diagnoses can play a role.
Doctor Rao : Both of you might want to consider marriage and family therapist(MFT) intervention. It might be helpful to resolve if any underlying causes for these difficulties present.
Doctor Rao : If you suspect any depressive symtoms,please ask him to keep a mood diary (mood ranges between a scale of 0 to 10 and also briefly documented notes reflecting his mood)
Doctor Rao : Please do not hesitate to ask me for more information,if required. I wish you all the best. If you find the answer helpful,please Accept.
Why does my husband steal money and small objects from me? Why does he lie about random things?
We have been together for 2 yrs and married for 10 months of it. Over the course of your relationship I have caught him in multiple lies. He lies over little things like if he dropped off something for me and big things like his sexual past. He will make up great big stories to go along with the lies. It took me about six months to start to figure out that he was lying so much. I thought it would get better but I still catch him in the most random lies. I have also caught him stealing items from me. He took a CD out of my car that I had since I was a teenager.... it was my first CD I ever owned ( I am 31 now). He stole my x-husbands ipod that fell out of his pocket. He took my cell phone and lied for months about it. Finally when I told him my cell company was charging me $400 for it he came over and said he was going to help me look for it. Well he "found" it under my couch, which I had looked multiple times under. He stole a hand gun from me that he gave me for Christmas and denied it for months. He gave me a titanium pin that he had in his leg form when he broke it.... I put it on my key chain on a key ring and I just found it in his pants pocket. He said it just "fell off" in his pocked. But the key ring is still attached to my keys. Now that we are married he will take cash out of my pocket and say he didnt do it. He is wealthy and does not need the money.
He will swear and yell at me and then be really nice. He will be very distant and then all over me. He is an average looking man that is short.... I am an attractive woman and he worries I married him for his money. He has spit sun flower seeds in my face. He has locked me in his house when we fight and I try to leave. Since we have been married he screams insults at me saying my clothes are too tight and has even called me a whore due to my past sexual experiences. I have been with 5 people and he has been with over 15.
I dont know what to do. I love him and he can be so nice and fun but then he does these crazy things. He has also paid a lot of my debts from my prior marriage. When I told him I wanted a divorce he accuses me of using him just for that and then dumping him..... any suggestions??
Doctor Rao : One obviously helpful suggestion Is seeing a MFT (marriage and family therapist)??
Doctor Rao : If there are depressive symptoms by treating them his beahviour might change
Doctor Rao : I hope this helps..s
So I basically paid $45 to be told to see a therapist? Just thought you would give me more insight then that....