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When I lose my temper I do not seem to come out of it very

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When I lose my temper I do not seem to come out of it very easily and it gets worse, I seem to take my frustrations out on the people I love the most, if I drink alcohol this makes it worse and I have periods when I cant remember what I have said or done, but even sober I can build a rage up and cant seem to stop?
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Mental Health
Expert:  Alicia_MSW replied 2 years ago.
Hello,

I'm Alicia, I'm happy to help with your question today.

When you experience rages - how do you express this? Is it with physical violence (towards someone else or toward objects)? Have you ever sought treatment for the alcohol issue? Is there something specific that instigates your feelings of anger? Thank you for any additional information you are able to provide, and I will reply as soon as I hear from you.
Customer: replied 2 years ago.
Never physical but towards objects, yes did go to AA twelve years ago but found that depressing, have talked to family doctor, I have to admit that my frustrations are mainly from things not going my way and not thinking about the other persons ideas or reasons first
Expert:  Alicia_MSW replied 2 years ago.
Thank you for the additional information. I can understand your predicament and the reasons you might not be so keen on attending AA (although if you are interested in pursuing treatment for the alcohol issue, I can certainly provide you with some referral information.) I can't say for sure what is going on with you without having an in-person evaluation, of course, it's not unusual that the anger/rage issue is exacerbated by alcohol (although I understand that this issue is also there when you're sober, alcohol acts as a facilitator and so you're more likely to have outbursts when you're drinking.)

I'd like to provide you with some more information so that you are informed and are better able to decide what you'd like to do in terms of treatment for the anger issue.
It sounds like your symptoms (combined with the alcohol use) are consistent with a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder (although again, this is just for informational purposes and I cannot provide a diagnosis online.)
It's a disorder characterized by frequent anger outbursts, unstable personal relationships, feelings of irritability and other symptoms you can read about here:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/borderline-personality-disorder/DS00442/DSECTION=symptoms
If this is the case, a specific form of therapy known as dialectical behavioral therapy can help. You can read more about this here:
http://www.mind.org.uk/help/medical_and_alternative_care/dialectical_behaviour_therapy

It's also possible that it's a disorder known as intermittent explosive disorder (a relatively common disorder in men). You can read more about that here:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/intermittent-explosive-disorder/DS00730
Treatment for this disorder usually involves psychotherapy and/or medication.

You can find a therapist who can help you on this website:
http://www.bps.org.uk/psychology-public/find-psychologist/find-psychologist

I hope that helps. Please let me know if you need additional assistance or have any follow-up questions.
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