Shay,I got here in one piece, very happy about that! It was really a pleasant drive, no problems, no traffic or issues getting here. You are very welcome about helping you. I am so glad you feel cared for. That is important to me.I'm glad your headache is better now. It can really debilitate you if you have a bad one, I know. I get migraines too and they can take you down very quickly.It sounds like you made that 7th grader very happy! Kids that age just love new stuff, especially if it's cool. Obviously, you have very good taste in shoes!Happy birthday to your nephew! Eight is such a great age. They are adorable, able to do things on their own yet they don't have the inhibitions of the older kids yet.What did you want to share with me? It's ok if you feel you don't want to. Not that I want to discourage you, but if you feel too uncomfortable don't force it. I'm sorry you had such a bad dream last night. I wonder how connected it is with what you shared with me yesterday and how you recalled the pain you felt. When you described the dream, that is what came to me.Your move back to your old practice sounds like it is coming along great. The fact that LP's wife didn't say anything, that is a step in the right direction!I think your example of how to see what happened is great. Yes, I would add that they intentionally wanted to hit you. And the fact that they enjoyed hitting you, not caring what happened to you. Associating those feelings will help you put what you feel in perspective. You can drive yourself crazy thinking of the possibilities of what those guys have done. But the key here is that no matter what they have done, it is not your responsibility, it is theirs. Also, how do you know that they didn't do this to someone else before they did this to you? That is also a possibility. But no matter what, you coped the best way you could with this situation. Letting yourself go from the responsibility is important. You cannot control everything.Kate
are you still online? I'll tell you want I wanted to share. I just don't want it sitting out there. If I open a new thread, can we do a chat, or will that not work and/or do you need to get offline?
PS - why aren't you enjoying your time away instead of witting at the computer? :)
I'm sorry, I do need to go for now. I want to be sure to spend time with you when you do tell me and not have to go right afterwards. Are you ok with trying to connect tomorrow?
Have some fun, will ya?
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