I need some more information
Why do you want to end the affair?
How did the affair begin in the first place?
we played in a band together 20 yrs ago got awaynfrom eachother for as
our beliefs we r both married trying to do the rightnthing, i love him but this is tearing us both up.
why end the affair and not the marriages?
i would but he says he feels so guilty, it has been twenty yrs of emotional with out sexual also, has not just been about sex,
do these things ever work, he has always been here for me. so do i cut all ties lasted a year, i feel sick in side. empty
they work if both parties are on board
but it sounds like you are both riddled with guilt
i think the bigger question is why did you go out of your marriage?
i had only been married two month bfore i met him. my husband forced marriage he knew i had no where to go and to girls, and no where to go.
it was stupid i changed date 4 times.
is this man in affair using me or does he really carew
i dont know
do you feel used?
.i am now over wieght not like i was when i met him 20 years ago. he says doesnt matter i am still beautiful, i am confused
so you feel loved?
do you not feel loved in your marriage?
my husband loves me very much it is me. i dont love back
have you considered individual therapy?
been there, i cant get this guy off my mind. o well he we go again. thank you
have i answered your question?
how do i end it
thank you! :-)