I have communicated how I have felt with the stress. He gets extremely defensive with me and basically states there is nothing he can do, which is true. The ex has made our lives miserable at times, and she continues to just be an uncontrolled wretch. I am not sure I want to live with that for the rest of my life. My life has literally been on hold because of her. I feel so selfish at times. I want to get married, have a family, and build a home together, and I can't. I am literally frozen. He either does not see the severity of how I feel, or simply can't do anything about it, so he ignores it.
ok. Well, thank you for your time. I am extremely frustrated. I guess I need to really make some decisions before my life gets away from me