I appreciate your understanding - I guess the expanded question I have now
has to do with me. I am very anxious today as much of this built up repression
and expression of anger has been occuring during this week on my husband's
business trip to France whereby he had to be in the company of his boss
each day. he called me several times to discuss his inability to be in his
boss's company without feeling enraged. this is quite unfortunate as he has been
with the company for 2 years now and up until this point he has enjoyed the culture
the people and even his boss. his boss by the way, was promoted to sr. vice
president with a raise on the deal that was single handedly negotiated by my husband.
i heard him negotiate the contract with french lawyers and u.s. lawyers and was impressed by his professionalism. this is why my husbnad is freaking out
obviously there was money that could hav ebeen utlizeed for his raise but
his boss was given the kudos which my husband was responsible for.
added to the fact that we are faced with the most stressful financial burdens of our
entire 31 year marriage at this moment, due to many reasons, job losses,a
devastating flood in our home last august, ( we have rebuilt and repaired thankfully)
but he had a positive attitude up until this happened with his boss.
i don't know how to deal with him when he walks in the door today as he was
angry venomous actually when he spoke with me on the phone - the tone
this time even for him was unusual ..... so there it is..... any extra advice you
might share is greatly appreciated.
i am willing to be quite spiritual and grounded about this all - do I do the
warm welcome candlight toast and light coffee when he walks in or do i
retreat ? and see what he says???? i am not totally ready for a negative recount
of the trip and his disappointments. thank you sincerely.