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I am sorry I am only now replying...but I had company come in. As I said, this is a brand new...I can't even say we are a relationship. This person had a very dysfunctional childhood who teenage mother hated him and constantly told him he was stupid, ugly and no one would ever love and would "dump" him with sitters, who molested him (teenage babysitter and adult carefivers...all women. He is a very deep man and seeks a relationship (been married to 3 people; divorced for 14 years and only 2 women in all this time. Has not seen a woman in the past year...in anyway. He is a very loveble man but this new...just a few weeks...I don't know if I should get any further involved. Your advice and information is much appreciateed. I think he should be able in his remaining years to have a loving relationship, which he says he deeply desires. Me, too...my background isn't great, either and I have lost 2 sons, the oldest a year ago, and I have never felt I deserved or that anyone would love me. My mother blamed me for everything...even when my children's father abused me. So, two mixed up people. And I am 11 years older, but active, keep myself involved in things...make a good appearance (haha). He said this age difference would be relevant if I were 18 and he was 10-11 years younger...but...I will help him anyway I can...if I can find him. I will go to his home (1 hour away, near Pascagoula) Wed. As I said, he may just be so embarrassed, as he stated many times. I did nothing but try to assure him. He is a good lover, thoug.
Again, thank you very much.
I was told via a message that Karyn was unavailable and would be responding to my above message by email. I have heard nothing so far. Please advise. My email address is [email protected].