I have separated and divorced from my EX and we have a child together but we have had no direct and indirect contact for over a year after she falsely alleged that I domestically abused her and threatened which she used to prevent me access to our child. She has moved on with couple of guys (ofcourse one after another) that ended in heartbreaking relationship.
Now, after over a year that I am about to rebuild my relationship with our child, she want to have a psychological assessment on herself with respect to I having relationship with our child.
My question is what relevance has that got to do with me having relationship with our child.
That's my worries, for sure she got issues and psychological problems. But I know it has nothing to do with me, but she is saying that is me.
she has moved on with her love life with other guys who unfortunately has caused her heartbreaks, she has lost her career, and has moved to a new career that she is currently struggling with, she got massive debts, she got weight issues, she has got depression before we even started dating, she now has chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromygia, ME. All these is what she is trying to rope me in and say that they were due to domestic abuse (emotional and threats).
So my question is how can I distance myself from it. I have had no direct and indirect contact with her