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You have kept me on the right track so immediate responses are not necessary. You have said all along that it is necessary to keep applying pressure because she will do anything to keep from being psychiatricly evaluated and being convicted in Court of doing something wrong. Her actions have been so desperate of late which that alone is enough to show the court that she is not acting in the best interest of the child. She has manipulated lawyers into engaging in unethical legal actions in order to deceive my husband. Before they know it, they are in over their head and they bail on her. She has created quiet an army of enemies for herself, and they are all Lawyers!
I think what has been confusing in all this, is that although my husband's ex and my ex both have personality disorders with similarities, they need to be treated differently. It appears my husband's ex knows she did something wrong and knows she's crazy, and will do anything to keep that from being confirmed. My ex on the otherhand is NPD/Antisocial Disorder. He has no conscience, no fear, and believes he can do no wrong. He actually enjoys the fight because he always wins in his mind. Where pressure is important to force my husband's ex to cave, the opposite is true with my ex. I have to be an actress and let him believe he won so he can be off guard and really mess up. You pointed this out to me when I first started communicating with you. I took your advice and did not give him the heads up that I hired an Attorney and Forensic specialist. I acted like everything was fine and like I gave up. He went absolutely wild and did me a lot of favors. He just received notice I have a new legal team, and he now has 30 days to try to clean up his mess. Good luck.....
I feel like my life is a psychology class! It is all pretty interesting, and once you know how to deal with these "special" people it really isn't that difficult. You have really helped both my husband and me. I just wanted to give you that feedback. I hope I'm on the right track. Thanks!