thank you....you confirmed what I am doing as OK. Makes me feel I am on the right track. I saw part of Dr.Phils show
this am where the girl that lived with her parents counldn't make $$ ends meet to go out on her own. She never had to make decisions as a child and was spoiled. Dr. Phil said she missed a very important part of growing up by being sheltered.......this describes Elizabeth. ( by the way...I got rid of 20 cats....still 3 at home). She has no counselor.....its me. Eliz is very hard headed, and I told her yesterday that so far she has been thrilled with what I have had her do....she has to trust my decisions and make a move to come live with me. My plan is to get her in counseling, a tech training school, then a job.