OK, everyone has their quirks, but why when its time to put differences aside and take emergency ACTIOn would someone just stall out???
I have read all of the posts and books as this has caused me great ANXIETY over almost 25 years. There is a book called Phantom of the Psyche and when I read it, I thought that it was my wife's autobiography. She grew up in a home of mom PAD, dad the enabler - big baby mamby pamby, acting like a girl and hunny bunching them, and treating them like a 3 year old. Mean while they were educators, so my wife grew up around very high education, and maintained a very low emotional leverl I guess. When I met her she seemed quiet, reserved, educated, no baggage. But as it turns out her baggage is a million X heavier than anything that I have ever carried.
Just let me know when your ready!
I have nothing but grattitude for your insight and thank God for you being on this answer sight!