yes but my husband is so anger that he probably will not go. Just to give you another incident. Last month we return from our country home he was not paying his bills and told him to come next door. When he came in he started yelling that he finally fiqured it out he pointed to my husband and said the only thing you ever loved was her pointed to me and then pointing to me said the only thing I every loved was myself and money it just came out of left field did not know where this was comming from. I pretty much make all the decisions and bought all the properties my son never held a job more the 5 years. Was a stock broker and the market went south tried another financial institution until last month came to me and said he would like to run a pizzeria. My nephew owns 7 in NJ and feels this is what he wanted to do and ask if I would care my nephew and set up a meeting well my nephew did arrange to hire him of course not making much money but something happend where my nephew did not want to open one with my son I heard he was too aggressive thinking he was entitled to own one. Kicking him out from my house will hurt me more then knowing he is next door. I will get even sicker not knowing where he is. If you are in the queens area maybe I can convenice him to come and see you maybe he will come. My daughter is seeing a theripist because it was too much for her to handle and her theripist told her he might be suffering bi polar.