It certainly sounds to me that you partner has some serious issues surrounding sex. How long have you and he been together? Are the children his? Are you and your partner the same age and if so how old are you both? It would help to have some more information about you both and your relationship and how long you have been together to really be helpful. If you are willing to give further infomation I will more than happy to try to help you. thank you so much
we been together 15 years, he is 37 an i am 36 we hav 4 children together
is that your answer?