Thanks and I do value your time and desire to provide the right path. I use the term accountabiltiy partner because I allow bad friendships and do it again and again. I was willing to pay someone to listen to me and stop me when "I don't hear me doing it again". The "professionals" knew what I was asking, just didn't understand why I wouldn't have a friend be the accountability partner. When I'd tell all 3 of them that's why I can't have a friend, I pick bad friends, they looked at me with deer in the headlights stares. I'm going to just assume that this is my path, these people are my thorns, and this will be the cross I have to bear. Seems no one gets what I'm asking and if I already know the answer, then why am I asking. I'll honor your time and accept the answer.