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Hi, this is Dr. Colby.When you've talked to your sweetie, could you tell me more about (a) what sorts of things you said to do so and (b) what sorts of things he said in return? Expressing feelings and desires is not control; demanding, that is something else. Let's process it a little before I try to answer with definite suggestions.
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