Hi, I just answered this in the other question, but let me answer here as well.
When you call the psychologist tell him/her exactly what you told me. You can give more details based on the ideas or questions my answer to you may have engendered.
Your goal in the call is to make sure the psychologist is experienced with SM and is qualified to assess and evaluate SM and its severity and to treat it. Or to at least refer you to treatment. What you're looking for is this evaluation.
After the evaluation, you want to either have her begin treatment or to have the psychologist consult with you on how to treat this on your own at home.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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