the problem is he wants to help me pay the loans I took out for his education...
here was my idea
1. go back to school starting with summer classes and continuing into the fall, we will pay for the education along with other bills
2. If you have know desire to return to school then we feel it's time for you to move on-will give you a few months to find a place of your own and wish you the best of luck
It will kill us to do this but I at my witts end-my wife is so upset I just don't know what is the right thing to do-Pete