I need some advice with this girl I've been seeing. Her name is XXXXX XXXXX and I have been working together for the last 10 months. Up till December 1st 2011, Ann and I had been really good friends, flirted and hung out both in and out of work. Ann has a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend. I broke up with my girlfriend because it did
not work out with her and I. Not because of Ann but that it was long-distance. Ann is also in a long distance relationship about 7 months into it. She told me that when she first came here she liked me, she was single and I had a girlfriend. Between May of 2011 and December we flirted, hung out, had an awesome time. Ann and I both agreed.
On December 1st 2011, Ann and I kissed each other. And we started to see each other. She invited me over to her house and we spent time together throughout the entire month on December. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, oral sex but never full intercourse. I went on Christmas vacation and she asked me to drop by her house. She invited me for dinner at her parents, she was visiting them for Christmas. And had me meet her best friend. She told me that her parents loved me, that her mom said I was very social and I came from a good family. Her sister told her, that I was cute and she should date me. Her best friend told her that she should try it with me since we have so much fun together and laugh together all the time. She told me that she loved seeing me in when I came to visit. Before this and during the entire part of our vacation we texted one another and had phone conversations. We would text for hours on end and we would talk everyday even for 3 hours. I sent her a dozen red roses right before Christmas and bought her some small crystal elephants. I came back early from vacation and we both hung out together, she said she loved it. She was excited to see me.
She tells me that she cares for me. And that she could see herself with me. When she was with her boyfriend she called me to say that she was thinking about me and missed me. Recently we decided to slow things down, she explained that she feels awful because she has a boyfriend. And doesn't want to be rebound since I was in a semi-serious relationship. She says she would be jealous if we were together and if she saw other girls flirt with me. When I'm away she tells me she misses me. She always messages me and wants to talk! She said we feel the same but she thinks I feel less than what I think it is.
Im looking for some honest feedback, please be straight forward.