Part of her unhappiness is caused by our daughter of 31 who has chosen to be a massage therapist. She is a lovely girl but is very promiscous and has a problem with men and relationships. My wife to my horror calls her behind her back "a good for nothing whore, bitch, dope smoking addict and says she hates her" and yet when shes face to face with our daughter shes very accepting and nice to her
How does one approach or deal with a personality like this? i find that when i try to talk to her about the problem I get shouted down and receive an answer like" I'm just a f..... bitch of a maid that you don't care about and i wish I was dead"
I try to keep calm and as always remain silent more often than not. I never raise my voice but then "I ca'nt stand the way you look at me" is her response and I usually walk away until she eventually composes herself