oh ok, sorry.. pressed the wrong button i think.
Yeh about not having an argument in 5 years..
We just got on really well.. We are both calm, laid back people and making each other happy was high in each others priority list..
I often thought she was a bit of a pushover with things - not me, but i mean she never liked any confrontation.. she almost accepted she would never have her way so just went along with things.. It made me sad
. As ive mentioned before, i always wondered about her upbringing, the eating disorder, boarding school etc... She always seemed happy to just go along with what other people wanted..Eg, nights out.. she would never say "I want to do this" - she would alwyas just tell me "Laura wants to do this so we are going there etc.." I think she was always happy to just go along with what I wanted, but I always valued her opinions and wanted to do what ever she wanted to do.Even with simple things with where to go out for dinner that night... I would always try and do what she wanted.
I loved her a lot so would always try and consult/communicate with her about things in our relationship.. weekend plans, train times, etc..
What are your thoughts on this? Do you have any more ideas about her..?I think this pushover characteristic has a big part to play in my problems with her... ie, she was pushed over by these other guys so easily.
What you have said previously has helped me put things into perspective, thank you. ive re-read it all alot. The problem with me is that im a scientist by nature. I like numbers, facts and answers and that's what im in need of here, although I know i may not get it.