I will work on your suggestions, the only thing is this man/my fiance is very protective of his son. I am a corrections offficer and see a lot of things in the facility this is what makes me suspicious of his son. My fiance is even in denial of his son doing drugs but one of our inmates confirmed to me that she sold to his son. His son's conduct shows that he is on something. Also my fiance's sister confirms that her brother is afraid of her son. My fiance allowed his son to move in with him when his mother died in 2005, this was suppose to be brief stay but has turned into what seems to be permenate. My fiance has put a lock on his door and admit that his son throws things of his away or things as well as his money disaapeared but again he seems to be afraid to confront his son becasuse he says" he son has a temper". It is hard for me to interact her because my fiance takes up for his son. This is a small community and everyone has noticed, they always call or come to me asking what is wrong with my fiance. Yes, everyone in community knows and confirms his son is on drugs, everyone but his father/my fiance. Yes, I wish there was some way I could get his son turned in, arrested, something just so he could get some help for this addiction but I don't know what to do. His son quit his job almost three months ago and within that time is when his father/my fiance health has just greatly decreased, these symtons of confusion, loss of memory, loss of weight. Yes, we are seeing a doctor that did mri, blood work, etc and has not found anything wrong. His next appointment is in about a week. Oh his doctor did prescribe megestrol and another medication(name unknown) that my fiance informed me someone threw away. Now tell me who else would throw medication away when only the two of them live in that household. I suggested to my fiance that his son did that and he admits that it is possible but refuses to confront his son. Seems I am damed if I do, damed if I do. I wonder why do I even bother, just get out of this relationship and let by gone by bygones but I hate to see this happening to this almost helpless man. What do I do.