After 6 years of marriage, 2 children ages 5 & 1. I have been reading that my wife meets multiple definitions of being an extreme narcissist.
As I look back on our marriage it all stated to make since and she has evolved to the point of being not only a danger to herself but a danger to our kids.
I think that her evolution is about a year off from grave danger but I have discovered this in the nic of time.
I conducted a few of my own experiments on her to confirm what I though I knew rather than playing games.
I shifted many of the pictures on our walls around that have been in place for sometime and she glanced but did
not notice to say anything.
I think she is disconnected from reality much more than I thought. I cleaned the house so nothing was messy.
After she fell asleep I purposely shifted things around again but this time I took all of her personal items an placed them randomly in a mess to see her reaction.
She because extremely irritated the next morning and blamed me for the mess although all the items we hers. She has always I instructed me not to touch those items, and that they we things of hers that she has not worn for years.
I did not notice the right and left aspect of her pictures until I started reading about narcissism. I think it is just some thing very specific to her and a major piece to this odd and troubling puzzle.
I have been trying to make a connection to the term chirality and dismorphia.
If you recieved the pictures I attached to this question, maybe you can now see a little bit more of what I am asking?