when i left i was heartbroken and told him that i wasnt leaving because i didnt love him.....he contacted me once to tell me to get my stuff out.....clothes and trinkets immediately or they would be out on the street. That was the day I Received my results from having a hysterectomy done. He never once asked.....and 2 days later held a christmas party....i didnt go. He didn't like any of my friends would disappear if they came around. But he liked a local pub where anyone he knew and was very social there...and well liked. We had a lot of fun together....even by ourselves but he would snap....i would be told in the end that i didnt do anything for him and that i wasnt even good for sex since recovering from a hysterectomy...that night got told to sleep in the spare room and then didn't speak to me for 3 days. Since then I Tried to make contact.....we made plans to meet and then told me it would have to wait...he was busy christmas shopping. hasnt bothered to contact me at all......are you sure this isn't a control freak instead of schizoprenia?
Thank you for your time. I needed to hear it from an expert.....i searched online and there really isn't much information on actual behaviours. Can you give me any advice. I Keep going from sadness to anger...I Feel trashed. i don't know how to grieve this. I've written letters and thrown them away and i have never ended a relationship like this one ever......I am angry and sad...I don't know if I Should write a kind letter or express my anger...or do nothing at all. I've lost my home and all of my contents...this final advice would be so much appreciated and by the way....you've been great! Vikki