Isn't this a relief? Understandably, you were worried about this very special woman, and if things will work out with her. You also asked about the pornography, yet with the healthy replacement of it with your time with her, your interest in it has diminished. Things are definitely looking good, from what you've shared.
Remember: All you have to do is enjoy her, let her know that you do, and keep her laughing, while being yourself. When she's down - if she gets down - hold her, gently but securely. Support her involvement with what's important to her, and you will benefit yourself more than you can imagine.
great by showing her respect when she told you "no."
Doing that increased her respect for you, and probably more than you might imagine.
Just enjoy yourselves right now. Lovemaking will happen. When it does, if it's not earth-shattering sex, don't even worry about it. It's usually not; often, the first time with someone it's awkward, despite what movies portray. You just enjoy yourselves, and help her to enjoy herself, and you will cement the foundation blocks of your relationship.