yes, by manic you have hit the nail on the head. She can't even keep up talking with her thoughts at times. Yes, in her past relationship, I am certain, ended because there was no money left. Yes, she would be up until past midnight and up at 4 am.
To complicate things, she added Baileys to her coffee, smoked pot, and because of her disorder (phantom pain?) visited the ER many times and they enabled her.
She takes Zolof (sp)