Yes that is a very normal reaction when someone has been cheated on and is angry, confused and hurt.
I am the one who has beeen cheated on, she is deciding whether she wants to recocile with me or be with him...
That is too bad. You need to set some limits with er about how long she will take making up her mind
It's been almost a week, what is normal? When I ask her she says I'm pressuring her...she still has contact with the other guy
You are just starting but it will go on unless you force her to d3ecide swo that you can get on with your life.
I know, she hasnt been able to meet me because she says she will just start crying. We are supposed to meet tomorrow
I feel like a chump for still loving her and wanting to reconcile
You are letting her make the decision when you newed to see what this relationship is trying to teach you
I know I need to change some things, but I feel like she is trying to put the whole blame of this on me
That is a cheap trick. You might listen to what she has to say and think if you need to change. There was a french whore who said that she would be out of business if the wives of her suiter treated their husbands right.
hahaha, good one!! Any more advise for my meeting with her tomorrow??
Be honest. Be straight forward. Don't let her make the decisions and set some boundaries with her.
In other words take control of your life
Thanks doc, it hard when I still love her and dont want to lose her
but youre right