Hi are you there?
Hello are you there?
i have slow iternet pez b patent
u r gone b 4 i read ur message
Hi, you have to stay online to chat
can you also not speak in text?
are you there?
Hi nice to see you
are you finally here?
good to see you and I have read your post
what you describe is quite common actually
I have treated many happily married people where one of the partners was addicted to masturbation and that had begun to cause problems for them
ironically getting past it is not a do it yourself project you will need so see a counselor for help with this
what is my next move
call your local mental health clinic and ask to see a therapist there
do not worry its all confidential and private
so no one will know your business
it should only take a handful of sessions to treat
k i was hoping toget this from you
yes dont worry its okay
lots of people have this experience you will be okay
just get some help and it will resolve
you will be okay
dont feel bad or guilty
just do get some help before your marriage explodes
dont know where to go i live in a small town
do you live near a city or another small town?
again no one will know your business there are privacy laws about this that are quite strict
so not to worry on that part
very small we dont have a mental facilty
okay do you have a car?
a way to go to the nearest city near you?
or a hospital?
hospitals usually have mental health services attached
I wish this were easier but it really is the type of issue that needs professional help