Thank you for contacting Just Answer. Since your husband won't go to marital counseling which is what I think the two of you should do then you should think of date nights --- go to the movie, to theatre, to concerts, to dinner. If there is a community organization where you live, join, participate in their activities. It's a good way to make new friends as is joining a church group.
So what I am saying to you since you are the one bringing it up here --- come up with things to do. If, at first, he won't join any groups, then you do. You may meet new people. You will start talking about it --- you may get him interested.
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