I cannot find any information on the internet on how to effectively communicate with kids who have been victims of parental alienation. My son has learned to talk to me in a way that gets him what he wants but still keeps himself at a distance emotionally.
There is an organization that I am a member of that deals with Parental Alienation. It is headquartered in Toronto, but is a global organization. It was started by a dad who was alienated from his children.
dealing with problems that relate to "Parental Alienation." I think you should contact this organization. You can let them know that I recommended you so that they will provide you with whatever information you need --- What steps to take to regain your parenthood. Parental alienation is a form of parental child abuse. It must be stopped. This organization will help in what steps to take.
Hope you find the success that many parents have through this organization.
Dear Dr. Schaye,
I'm sorry if I have offended you. I was going by the very limited information I had about you when I posted my feedback. Had you expressed that you are and expert in the field of PAS and are a member of the organization you referred me to, and explained it to me the way you did below, I would not have felt like I was being given a quick and easy response for my $29.00. I was skeptical of using this online site and selected the detailed answer because I wanted someone to give me the best advice possible. I do realize you cannot make a genuine assessment of my situation without knowing the complete history of it.
I feel much better knowing you are a member of the web site you sent me to. Again, please accept my apology for stating that you are not an expert in the field of my question. Would you have given me a different answer if I'd only paid the $19.00 fee? My complaint is mostly with this web site offering different levels of detailed answers when the answer may have been the same no matter how much I paid. I appreciate your referral to those web sites and I'm looking forward to getting in touch with them. If I could leave different feedback now, I would. Thanks again.
Your previous response:
"I am sorry that you feel the way you do. Sorry but I am a member of the Parental Alienation Organization and do know a lot about that syndrome. AND it's because I know a lot about that syndrome that I asked you to contact that organization to see about finding someone in your area. I would have absolutely NO IDEA and neither would anyone else why you are alienatyed from your son unless a very thorough interview was done. So, of course, I gave you that URL because ALL of us professionals who are members there are experts in this area. That's why by the way, that we don't give you some hocus answer without knowing your situation very thoroughly. There would not be many people on this site who would know about this site. Of all of us EXPERTS on this site, I am the only one who is a member of Parental Alienation Organization."