Hi there, I hope you can help me. My boyfriend and I are 22, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and I still haven’t orgasmed. He has problems either maintaining an erection , or when he does have one the sex only lasts for 5 minutes.
Ive never had this problem with other boyfriends, and Its very upsetting for me because sex is very important to me. We hardly ever have sex, but I want to have sex regularly.
When I confront him about it, he gets upset and angry and avoids the topic. He said he has always had this problem , and has seen a doctor about taking viagra, which doesn’t work for him. And he has considered getting his penis straightened to help with the blood flow, because he has a slightly curved penis.
He told me he has never really enjoyed sex that much, his parents were always against sex, and he has some performance anxiety
. So I think the root of all his sexual issues is psychological and not physical.
What can I do to get him to see someone, or to help solve this problem? Its such a sensitive issue for him and I’m obviously not approaching it right.