Hello there and thanks for letting me know. I imagine having a baby is so much work and you are feeling so tired. Many women report similar experiences to yours. Being a mother can be all-consuming and boredom is not great in a marriage. I wonder if you tried to get a baby-sitter and have weekly dates with your husband. I think most women need an emotional connection and some excitement to feel sexual. I have noticed that the excitement about dressing up turning the romance on helps.
Once a week take a dance class, go out with friends anything that will make you feel alive and support your self esteem. Many new mothers tell me that they stop feeling like a desirable woman after they have a baby. Taking care of your self will help you feel sexy and sexual.
I hope those suggestions help.