Well if he has the money......I guess it is normal. Normal or not, he is doing it. Of more importance, you must be in great pain and feel like you have no control. It is very sad for you. I suspect your wife will learn"something" the hard way, but meanwhile, anything I can do for you.
Let me try to rephase the question, why would a man offer all this things to a woman he just met?
To manipulate her. He likely is an asshole and just "buys" what he wants with conscience or concern for others.
I see, also like i said me and her have been talking peaceful, lets me know as long as I continue progress and show her I change than we can start rebuilding our marriage, however, like I said before, when he is around she stops talking to me and asks me not to text her.
Yes, he isn't doing this without her involvement. I tend to be honest, so my gut reaction is she is keeping both options open so she can decide if she wants to stay with him (or otherwise move on) or recommitt to you. She certainly is not "innocent" in all of this. I am gald you are still talking and hopefully making progress.
Above I meant without conscience