I have told him about numerous big stressers in the past 10 years, 3 abominal operations, loss of job, loss of significant income and lifestyle that I used to enjoy with my corporate job and taking care of my elderly parents.
And that I exercise on a regular basis and eat right, and enjoy treats in moderation. I guess I will have to reiterate all that to him. I am the same weight as I was when we met, nothing significant has changed.
As you suggested I will tell him that his comments surfaces difficult and painful experiences over the past 11 years, most of which I have had NO control over.
Any additional comments are always welcome, thankyou,