Hi, I'd like to help you with your question.
Bipolar is a disorder that is characterized by severe mood swings from deep depression to elation. When a person has Bipolar, they will become so depressed they are unable to function. They sleep a lot, their appetite changes, they are not motivated to do anything and they may become suicidal. When elated, they may go on spending sprees, drink a lot or being sexually promiscuous. They feel so up that sleep is difficult and they may sustain themselves on only 2 hours of sleep a night.
Bipolar can be hereditary, so if your daughter has a family history she may have an increased risk of having Bipolar.
From the symptoms that you described, however, it does not sound like she has Bipolar. The symptoms sound more like a conduct disorder or a personality disorder. The best way to tell is to get your daughter an evaluation. You can start with her doctor and have them refer her to a therapist. They can do a full evaluation and determine what her diagnosis is and the best treatment option for her.
If your daughter will not go, you may have to check with your local mental health clinic or your attorney on you legal rights to force her into treatment. You are her parent and I believe until the age of 18, you have the right to force her to get treatment. If you cannot, then you may want to consider allowing her to face the consequences of her behavior. That means that the next time she wrecks your home or drinks alcohol, you contact the authorities. That is hard to consider, I know, but the consequences to her and your family if she is allowed to continue as she is are great. She may eventually end up hurting herself or someone else.
I hope this helps you. Let me know if I can assist you any further,